Foreplay: My Favorite Part

Our time may be limited, which makes savoring it all the more important.
Dashing to the finish line might sound like the right approach to an encounter that by its nature is finite, but we risk missing out on a lot by not taking the time to decelerate.

”What is the answer?” One might ask. It may be counterintuitive, but the simple answer is: Slow down.

Spending time touching, caressing, and holding each other builds excitement — as we know from Dr. Frank-In-Furter’s infamous line in Rocky Horror Picture Show: “I see you shiver with antici…pation.” And that’s exactly what I want.
I want the heat and desire to build inside you, and inside me. Bodies take time to warm up, especially with a brand new person. Let’s strap in for the ride of our lives and tap the breaks. You deserve to squirm with your appetite.
The more we touch and kiss those innocent parts of our flesh, the greater the payoff, the bigger the reward.
It takes some time for genitals to engorge with blood. Did you know, the more blood pumping between our thighs, the better the orgasms will be? And that takes time. It’s important to release the ambition for immediate payoff, and embrace a slow build that will lead inevitably to better orgasms, and a better experience.

A lot of people waste their time in a rush to enjoy it.

Let’s not waste one moment.

XO,
Charli Gallo